I wanted to talk to you today about seven tips to eliminate the single status for good. I also want to remind you that happy, passionate relationships are possible, even if you’ve never experienced one before.
- Did you know that one of the main reasons that I’m talking to you about this topic is that I didn’t believe it to be true for a very long time?
- Did you know that you can be, and have, and do, anything that you really desire?
- Did you know that you can eliminate that single status with a few simple steps?
So even if you didn’t think it was possible before, I hope by the time you have finished reading this that you are beginning to believe it might be possible.
Imagine feeling loved. Imagine feeling really supported
So, imagine feeling loved. Imagine feeling really supported by that someone special in your life. Imagine knowing that no matter how tough your day is, that you can go home and you can actually relax in the comfort of that company. Knowing that they will always be there to support and love you. Imagine the glow you might feel during the day knowing that you’re never going to be far from your partner’s mind. Knowing that no matter how busy and frantic life gets, you will always be uppermost in their thoughts. Knowing they care about you. Knowing they care about your happiness and that they care about your experience in life. Well, you don’t have to imagine it because it’s now possible for you to experience that.
All you need to know is these seven really important steps that you need to take. That happy, passionate relationship is available to you, no matter even if you’ve never believed it possible. Even if you’ve never seen it, even if you’ve never experienced it.
Once you understand the steps, you will have no more fear of repeating those old relationship mistakes and those old relationship patterns that so many of us repeat over and over. No more worrying that you’re going to make the wrong choices. Because if you follow these steps, you will get to that place where you know it is possible, where you know that you don’t have to worry, that you can move forward with confidence into that new relationship without worrying, without the fear, without freaking out that it’s just never going to happen for you.
Does it sound too good to be true?
I probably would have said ‘yes’ a few years ago, because for me that journey was a long, hard journey. I too believed that it was too good to be true. But now, looking back over the last seven years or so, I’ve actually discovered that it is possible, and you can have it too. In fact, that’s really why I’m giving you this message, because I’d like to help you to achieve it much more easily than I did. I took the long, hard journey. I had to learn a lot of stuff. I had to struggle through a lot of stuff. And I don’t want you to have to experience that same struggle. When you finally get that relationship that you’re looking for, I can assure you, it will be worth it. So, let’s see if we can’t short circuit that journey for you.
You really need to clear all that past stuff
Step one is really, really important, and this is probably where most people get hung up and find difficulty. This is where you really need to clear all that past stuff, all the hurt, all the sadness, all the resentment. It’s really non-negotiable. You can’t move forward hoping that you’re going to have a great relationship, unless you’ve actually taken this step.
I promise you, it will be like an anchor around your neck until you’re actually clear of all the sadness, all the hurt, all the resentment, even anger. If you still feel anger towards a previous partner, you really need to be free of that anger so that you can move forward. Even if you actually feel anger towards your parents and their relationship or what they taught you about relationships, you need to be free of that as well.
Now that’s a pretty big step. I’m sure you agree that’s a lot of work to be done. Some of this you can do on your own, and some of it you’re going to need to seek out some help. But most importantly, you need to realise that it’s a non-negotiable step. You have to take that step if you’re going to move forward with confidence and have that relationship that you do deserve to have. That relationship that is there waiting for you.
You need to believe that it’s possible
Step two is where you need to believe that it’s possible. Now, it’s all very well for me to tell you that it’s possible. But you need to actually believe that to be true yourself. So, if you don’t, then it’s possible to do some work using this strange technique, emotional freedom techniques. With Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), you can actually find where your belief was formed, and then you can clear the belief that ‘it’s not possible to have happy, passionate relationships’.
I will also understand completely if you have had the experience of your parents’ relationship not being happy, the experience of your friends’ relationships not being happy, the experience that your relationships have not been happy. To be honest, that’s a pretty normal journey and it’s very hard to believe that happy, passionate relationships are possible if that’s been your only experience. However, I can promise you they are possible. All it takes is the clearing that we’re talking about and changing those beliefs that have been holding you back.
You’re going to get what you believe, what you expect. So, if your belief is that you’re not expecting to get a happy, passionate relationship, that’s exactly what you’ll get – an unhappy, unpassionate relationship. If you can begin to believe that it might be possible, that you can actually have, be and do anything, as the Universe promises, then that’s what you’ll begin to expect and that is what you’ll get. As long as you get into the right vibration.
So, if this sounds like you, if you really need help to believe that happy, passionate relationships are possible, then send me a message, or contact me privately. Let me know where you’re up to, and I can let you know what you need to do from there.
Can you imagine?
Can you imagine yourself in that happy, passionate relationship? Can you actually create the picture of that in your mind? So, for step three you need to really create it in your mind as though it already exists. You need to imagine how good it feels as though it already exists. This is such an important step to take. If you are struggling to get to that place, again, you might need to do some tapping and clearing work either by yourself or with some guidance. Together we can clear whatever it is that’s blocking you.
What do you see when you look in the mirror?
Okay, step four is to completely love yourself, just as you are. Now, how many people do you know who give themselves a hard time? They look in the mirror and they just are disgusted or they’re not happy with themselves, or whatever that level of feeling is. You need to be able to look in that mirror and love yourself just as you are. Until you can do that, nothing else is going to change. So that’s a really important step to take too. As you can see these are quite involved steps to take, but you can do it! You can get to that point of having that happy, passionate relationship for yourself.
If you were on your own, could you live a happy joy-filled life?
Step five is about feeling that even if you were on your own, that you could live a happy, joy-filled life. When you feel that, that is when the relationship that you’re looking for will be right there waiting for you. I understand that this sounds a little back-to-front in a way. However, until you can love yourself enough to know that you’re going to be okay no matter what, then it is your ‘lack of self-love’ that is holding you back from being in the vibration that you need to be in. You need to actually achieve, or come into the same vibration as, your happy, passionate relationship.
What if that relationship has always been there waiting for you?
Something really important to think about is ‘what if that relationship, what if that person that you’re looking for has always been there waiting for you?’ Just like they’re in another room, just outside the door from where you are, and all you need to do is come into that vibration that they’re already in, so that you can experience them in your life. That’s actually what’s going on here, except the door isn’t a wooden door, it’s an energetic door.
Negotiate for yourself, with a love partner
The last step is to feel confident that you can negotiate for yourself with a love partner? Could you do that in a strong, respectful way, asking for what you need? In the past, you might have actually done it in a different way. You might have been the loving, nurturing partner who would bend and sway to the will of your partner. That’s not going to work. That is not going to result in a happy, passionate relationship. In the end, you’re going to resent doing that and I’m sure you recognise that, if you’ve been in a relationship or two. You’ll recognise that you probably did too much. You probably made yourself too loving, too nurturing. You know, that old story of women who give too much.
So, if you can say a very strong resounding ‘yes’ to all of these steps, then I wish you well, because I know that you’re going to have an amazing journey with an amazing relationship. If you can’t yet say ‘yes’ to those things, then I would love to have a chat with you.
For those of you who haven’t yet had my relationship breakthrough session, I want to offer that to you today. It’s a ‘once in a lifetime’ free 30-minute free session, where we can talk about where you are in your relationship. We can talk about what it’s going to take to get you to where you want to be in your relationship. It’s about finding that joyful place in your relationship, and finding that joyful place in your life, without a relationship. To secure your ‘once in a lifetime’ free 30-minute free session, simply contact me and I’ll get in touch with you to set that up.
Whatever you do, please know that it is completely possible for you – yes you – to have that happy, passionate relationship. Don’t deny yourself that because you’re afraid. Don’t deny yourself that because the past experiences haven’t given you what you’ve wanted. Remember that those past experiences aren’t the definition of you and who you are. They’ve actually been there to refine what you want and what you don’t want.
Now I’ll bet that you are much clearer than you’ve ever been before about what’s important to you and what’s not important in a relationship. Life is all a journey and I’d love to help you along your journey to your happy place.
Until next time, bye for now.