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Relationship pain and struggle

Suzanne Scarrow - Monday, May 15, 2017

There is nothing like a love relationship to bring challenges and personal growth.  The one you love will act as a mirror for you, without you even asking, reflecting back to you the things you don't like about yourself.  You will feel the discomfort of it and perhaps blame the one you love.

A wiser way to approach this is to ask yourself some pretty important questions:

  • 'What do I have to learn in this situation?'
  • 'Where in my life have I felt a similar feeling to this?'
  • 'Who else has made me feel this way?'
  • 'If I could be free of this feeling, what would it feel like?'
These questions will highlight for you the emotional baggage you need to clear.  Once cleared - using a tool like Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) - you will have the freedom you have been hoping for.  

For example, if you find that you feel a pattern of being rejected or hurt by the one you love, there is almost certainly a time earlier in your life where you were hurt and rejected by a significant person, like your Father or Mother.  When you clear the pain of the earlier hurt and rejection the present experience also reduces in intensity.  

Once you are clear of the vibration of being hurt and rejected by that significant other, as a child, then you stop attracting similar situations into your experience.

You deserve to be free of this baggage.  You are the only one with the key and you are the only one who can do the work.
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